Dear Editor,
Let me appreciate the good work you guys are doing through this column. I have been an ardent follower of this column and the daily post news. More grease to your elbows.
I have a challenge to share. Permit me to hide my identity please. I have been married for about four years without a child and unfortunately, my wife has not helped matters by her reluctance for reasons best known to her. As christians, we have naturally been praying. We have attended several special programmes for prayers and still praying. Medically, we did some tests. For me, I did a semen analysis test which the doctor certified very good. For her, she did some tests including the HSG which showed that she is okay, but the gynaecologist asked her to do a Laproscopy after which he will administer appropriate medications.
She has vehemently refused to do it. All efforts to get her to do it has failed. Traditionally, her parents and mine had suggested herbs for her to take but she has refused. At this juncture, I have got options running through my mind like getting a willing beautiful girl to be the mother of my children because I’m not getting younger either.
Now before you think I’m impatient, note this: I know that people wait for longer years, but my issue is with the attitude towards the problem by my wife..what do you think I should do please? kindly advise me.
Thank you, Anonymous
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