I’m a 36-year-old single lady. I have been dating this guy for over 4 years and he promised to marry me.
On several occasions, I have caught him cheating on me. Once I caught him in the act, he begged me and I forgave him.
After one year, I caught him cheating again and I told my mother. She advised me to bring his sperm to her and she would make him marry me in less than 4 months.
I am confused.
I don’t suspect she is a witch or anything like that because she is a prayer warrior in my church, she sees visions for people and they come to pass.
My question is, what does she want to do with the sperm?
I have asked her several times and she says I should not ‘question the spirit’.
I am also scared because I don’t want him to abandon me after so many years of dating and go to marry another woman. I have suffered with him.
Do I tell my boyfriend what my mother asked for? Or do I just do as she has said? I know she is my mother and will not mislead me.
Please, I need your advice.
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